Do this happen to you: when you have a quarrel with your lover, you always use “you” and “I” to clarify your opinion? The fact is couple who use “we” do a better job in solve the contention.

According to a research on 154 middle-aged couples who have no experience in divorce, scientists find the aforementioned result by monitoring their body temperature, heart rate and sweat level.

It’s easy to understand the research result as from the psychological point of view, when the people you are quarrelling with mentioned about “we”, it means that he/she still think that you two should be get together. However, if he/she uses “I” and “you” during a quarrel, that may suggest that he/she is intend to separate with you, at least at that moment.

So, you remember this: next time when you have a fight with your lover, say “we”!

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